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What I Got Wrong About Cruising the World

Day 243: May 29, 2025 – At Sea, in the Pacific Ocean

When I imagined myself on this cruising-the-world thing, I pictured leisurely days in my cabin getting caught up on all the things I didn’t have time to do while on land. My reasoning went like this: I would no longer have to clean house, grocery shop, cook, shovel snow, mow the lawn, rake leaves, do my laundry, scrub toilets, stress about car or home repairs, or drive. Surely I’d have heaps of time on my hands?

I had a long project list planned. I would sort through 20 years’ worth of files on my backup drives. Process & tag thousands of photographs. Create photo books. Read books that have been on my reading list for years. Catch up on writing reviews for all the places I’ve traveled to. Thoroughly research my next destination. Do some tweaking of my blog templates.

Yet here I am, 8 months later, and I’m behinder 🙂 on all these projects than before I embarked.

In reality, being a world traveler is a full-time job. On port days, I’m out the door as soon as the gangway opens, usually between 8-10 AM. I spend most of the day exploring. Some days, I’ll return to the ship for lunch, then go back out again. Other days I’ll stay in town until the all-aboard call in late afternoon. Sea days become our weekends, when we can sleep in. But they’re also chock-full of things to do. There are dance classes, and craft classes, a fitness center to work out in and presentations about upcoming ports. It doesn’t help that I’ve also volunteered myself for several onboard projects. Yes, I know I need to learn to pace myself, and I don’t have to disembark in every port. But so far I haven’t been able to implement that lesson.

Back home, my meals would take no more than 30 minutes. Now, even if I stay on board, they stretch into hours over leisurely conversations with my fellow shipmates.

Dinner at sea with Ben, somewhere between Argentina and Brazil. Photo credit: Katrina

Though this could be considered slow travel—unlike normal cruises, we spend more than one day in many ports—it feels like we are hurling our way through the world. Those 4 months of cooling our heels in Belfast seemed agonizingly endless. The last 8 months at sea zipped by in a flash.

The Mermaid and the Dolphin – La Paz, Mexico
A colorful world – Topolobampo, Mexico

I vastly overestimated how much free time I would have. Yes, I know, it’s a good problem to have. Not complaining. Just reporting on the reality of residential cruising.

The Odyssey in Manzanillo, Mexico
14 responses to “What I Got Wrong About Cruising the World”
  1. Peter Divine Avatar
    Peter Divine

    All so true! How did we ever have time to work?

    1. Indeed.

  2. Donna Kruszewska Avatar
    Donna Kruszewska

    Reality for better or for worse seldom matches our imagined expectations. However, it’s all good, it’s all good as long as you are doing what brings you joy and satisfaction.

    1. True that.

  3. Debbie S Wallace Avatar
    Debbie S Wallace

    Exhilarating & Exhausting.. should be the title of your book when you write it ! My favorite part of the trip is all the birds. Just love love love the birds!!!
    Enjoy .. rest when you can…

    1. There will be plenty more birds coming up!

  4. Jane Anne Davis Avatar
    Jane Anne Davis

    You rarely sit still on land… how on earth would you even entertain the idea of slowing down at sea? Your curiosity gene is always in gear and I for one am ecstatic at your choices! Sail on, Basia! SAIL ON! ♥️

    1. Thank you dear Jane Anne ♥️

  5. everything you describe is just what you should be doing while you have the opportunity in my opinion. Those other tasks aren’t going anywhere but these wonderful explorations etc. won’t come around again! I so enjoy following you on your adventures.

    1. So glad to have you along on this journey, Jean

  6. Larry Brown Avatar
    Larry Brown

    Well, just think of all the time coming up going to and from Hawaii! Surely you can get EVERYTHING done then, right?

    1. Ha! Two Hawaii sea days left, and I haven’t made much progress…

  7. Shannon Clubb Avatar
    Shannon Clubb

    It’s hard to believe it’s been eight months ! And you should see everything out there !!!!!! Get off the ship and learn and eat long meals and learn and enjoy ! What a wonderful life experience !!! All of us at home are living learning also !!!!

    1. I am so happy to have you all along with me.

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